For
this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you should abstain from
sexual immorality; that each of you should know how to possess his own vessel
in sanctification and honor, not in passion of lust, like the Gentiles who do
not know God; that no one should take advantage of and defraud his brother in
this matter, because the Lord is the avenger of all such, as we also forewarned
you and testified. For God did not call us to uncleanness, but in holiness. Therefore
he who rejects this does not reject man, but God, who has also given us His
Holy Spirit. (1 Thess. 4:3-8)
Sexual
standards were very low in the Roman Empire, and in many societies today they
are not any higher. The temptation to
engage in sexual intercourse outside of marriage relationship has always been
powerful. Giving in to the temptation
can have disastrous results. Sexual sins
always hurt someone; individuals, families, businesses, churches. Besides the physical consequences, there are
also spiritual consequences (1 Cor. 6:18). Sexual
desires and activities must be placed under Christ’s control. God created sex for procreation and pleasure,
and as an expression of love between a husband and wife. Sexual experience must be limited to the
marriage relationship to avoid hurting ourselves, our relationship to God, and
our relationships with others.